In memory of Rabbi Gavriel & Rebbetzin Rivkah Holtzberg HYD - Shluchim to Mumbai, India*
Since you’re not sure whether you should continue with this shidduch therefore talk with someone who you’ll be open with. By talking it out it’ll make it clearer to you.
p. 273 Igros Kodesh Volume 29
Compiled by Rabbi Chaim Dalfin
*As a practical matter, since each person’s circumstances are always different, one must use the guidance above as general instruction. The exact application at any given time must be discussed with a competent rabbi, or/and a counselor of Torah, a Mashpia.